Rules & Regulations

"There is nothing quite like clarity."
Love Lucy

Well, they never said it would be easy. Being dropped off on this Earth, with no list of specific roles, no procedures for the best lifestyle. We were not given handouts on "How to..." with our birth certificates.

We were pretty much left to fend for ourselves, emotionally.Yes, indeed, we had our parents or guardians, and perhaps teachers that have helped us find certain best laid plans to guide us through... but inevitably, it would always come down to our choices on how we reacted to things, people, even places.

Looking back on life, and for many of us, wishing and worse, regretting certain things in our past, that have led us to now; we don't often enough look back and see the magic in every step and in every interaction that has made us the amazing people we actually are. We have, each one of us, accomplished so many things, but spend most of our time looking at what we haven't accomplished, or looking at the relationships that didn't work out, rather than how they in fact did after all, and sometimes that just meant moving on knowing more about ourselves, and being stronger for it.

Although we may be a bit aloof with what to do, or where to go, and with who, a great way to know and be confident with our lives is to have our own core values, and rules for how we wish to live our lives, and truly put these into practice.

Take time to truly get to know yourself, and also the type of person you want to be, by understanding what you need in your life, to grow and what perhaps is not allowing this growth, and why.

Everyone is different, and brings their own set of values to the table.Once you figure out what yours are, you may find you are sitting at a table with those with values just like yours, and can help you grow into that person you always wanted to be!



Or perhaps you now already are!

Love,

LuCy sMiLeS