All I Wanted Was A Rose

"If we know no one can read our minds, why do we still get disappointed when they don't?"
LoVe LuCY

No matter how many different relationships we endure, we share the same relationship with ourselves.

We can attract a Business Person, an Entrepreneur, a Banker, an Artist, a Writer... Our story of who we are is already written, and we wish to share ourselves with others, whoever they are. In our connections, we may feel alienation when it comes to communicating our feelings, and moreover our wants and needs, when it seems as though our needs are not being fulfilled.

Why is it when we state what we want, it seems as though the other is so willing and very much capable of giving us all we never ask for and nothing we ever wish for? Worse is when worst comes to worst and we are in disagreement, where states are cased that everything has been given to us, and we are "still not happy!"

What then? What now?

When so many things are in duality in our world, one thing that always remains the same is this: If we don't speak up, we will be without.

There is no blame when it comes to feeling lack of our needs met. If we feel we need something, and someone decides to give us something other, we must express our deepest thoughts, and feelings.

If we do not, we cannot expect anything other than what we get. AND, if we DO speak what we feel and tell what we need, and still get something other in return?

It is up to us to either accept it for what it is, "acceptingly", or "acceptingly" move on, with love, to grow with with what we want, when what we are given is not what we need, to grow.

LoVe,

LuCy sMiLeS