In A Manner Of Speaking

"How you say things means more than simply what you say."
LoVe LuCy

In some relationships, we have more comfort, more closeness, and sometimes more care, than in others.
So why is it, that in these very closely knit connections, we can say things in ways that can hurt those we love.
They say we hurt the ones we love, the most.

But in doing so, we can create chaos in these connections, simply by the manner in which we speak.

It is not an easy task to not get frustrated with our loved ones, at times.
As we mostly do so, simply because we are frustrated with ourselves. But it is in these times, we need to stop and think, before we speak, so we take care, even in the most chaotic of times.

Sure, we are going to slip up once in a while, we are all still human.

But, being able to be more careful in how we approach frustration, and hurt is what can make or break a relationship.

It doesn't matter as much what we are going through as it matters how we choose to deal with our circumstances.

We cannot control what happens, but we can control how we behave, and how we treat others along the way.

LoVe,
LuCy sMiLeS