It's A Wonderful Life

 "The easy way to getting what you want, is loving what you have" LoVe Di 
 

It seems that the closer to the holidays, and most of all,
during the holidays, there is a lot more energy that goes 
into thinking about where we are, and what we have endured
over the past year. Moreover, a bit of stress evaluating all that we
wish to change.
 
Our thoughts go to resolutions to set in place, as soon as the
clock strikes twelve on December 31st- ringing in the new year;
and a whole new wonderful life.
 
We are sure that whatever habits, unfortunate circumstances, or
less than favourable situations took our energy the year prior, we
can stop drop and roll out a whole new way of being,
now that the new year is upon us.
 
If you are anything like me, the more energy I put on trying to close the door of the Ghosts of year's past, the less likely it is that they go away.
 
A new year is a great way to start new goals, and set a new vision for ourselves; however, we don't have to feel that we must throw away all that we have taken with us to this point, as we are who and where we are because of everything we are, it doesn't matter the year, month and date. 
 
That doesn't go away.
This year coming can and will be a wonderful life, but even more so, if we can just carry with us what already is a wonderful life, right now.
 
We don't have to change all of our ways in order to grow- just be ourselves, be with and do what we love, and cherish every moment as a new moment to shine even brighter than the moment before.
 
We don't need a whole new year to start a whole new wonderful life.
We just need to believe life is beautiful, all year round!
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

We Are Blessed When We Care

"Mighty Oaks from Little Acorns Grow"

How will it happen? When will it happen?
We are always so worried and wondering about the next steps in our life, we sometimes overwhelm ourselves with just what steps to take to get there.
So many times, we can be confused, and scared and perhaps a bit frustrated wondering when we will reap the benefits for all of our hard work.

Many times, we feel almost as though perhaps we haven't been doing enough, because if we get back ten fold what we put out there, we shake our heads because it hasn't come yet, so what have we been doing wrong?

There is no way to measure just when we will see all great things come back to us, from everything we are, and everything we do.

One thing in life, however, we can measure.
It is how we measure up to the best us.
If we can walk and talk and breathe being the best us we can be, we don't have to worry about whether or not our ship will come in, we will just know that the journey we are on, is that of upmost integrity, therefore we can just be, and be patient.

We are all going to slip up once in a while, but in doing so, perhaps we can see the lesson in knowing that we will always be provided for, and we will always be loved and cared for, all we have to do is love and care.

So simple.
And just as an Oak tree, which is the symbol of strength and endurance, doesn't stand so tall in the forest simply because of its roots, but instead from the support of all that surrounds it, to get it to its highest; we are just the same.
We all desire to love and to be loved.
And in doing so, we all have the strength to grow to become the greatest us we can be...

So do just that!
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Check, Please...

"They say variety is the spice of life; I say a little Kahlua in my coffee works just as good"
LoVe Di

Check, Please!

So many things that we do, we do on autopilot. We wake up to our alarms, (press snooze about an average of 3 to 5 times), get up out of bed, brush our teeth, get breakfast, coffee, and off to work.

All to often, we may find ourselves seeming a bit off, when everything in our lives are seemingly on cue, and working fine.

The more aware we are about our emotions, the easier it is to get through every day with ease, and comfort. We need to check in with where we are, so we are not caught off guard by out of the blue breakdowns.

We are so good at what we do, because we do it so often, that it is second nature for us. But as the days and the months go on, we wonder where the time has gone, simply because we don't actually live in the present moment.

We certainly make the most of our time by getting as much done in as little time as possible, however, when is it a good time to take time out for ourselves?

Our days will get hectic, and the demands of life, family and social commitments may take up so much our time that we fail to commit to giving ourselves time to check in with our thoughts, and see how we, ourselves, are doing.

With the holidays here, we have much more on our plates, then any other time of the year.

So while you are working, shopping, wrapping, and giving to all those you love this Holiday Season, be sure to treat yourself, first.

LoVe,
LuCy sMiLeS

What's My Line?

"The only difference between fiction and non-fiction, is which one I believe is true"
Love Di

As a psychologist, ... Back up a minute.
I may not be a psychologist, on paper, but
as a Writer... That' s better.. a Woman, a sister, a friend, an Aunt, and a little girl (when I let myself be)- what happens in my life, depends on me, and what I chose to accept, reject, tolerate, enable, or disregard as truth.

Life is a simple class in Psychology 101.
Everything we are, breathe, believe, and act upon comes from our minds, our thoughts, our fears and our trust- in ourselves, and each other.

We all have different roles we play in our lives, and the lives of others.
And in the world as a whole.

To look at the economy, and it's positioning in current times, it begins and ends with the mind.

The Economy is not something separate from us, the economy is us.
But it seems as though we are all standing, waiting, biting our nails, like Actors, Actresses, waiting for the paper, the media, the storyline to give us our lines as to what to say next, and what to do and be next,
and how to show up.

We can act like we are puppets and characters in a play whose ending has not been revealed, or we can take it upon ourselves to create for ourselves, and each other an Economy that is rich, in spirit, which will lead to a more rich in security, not just financially, but emotionally.

Whoever says that we are going through hard times, took the first step.
It's he who follows through that takes the last.

What's my line?
As a Writer, I will write it myself.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Fuel to the Fire

"I'd fail Chemistry- as an Entrepreneur, I am too busy creating my own..."
LoVe Di

It goes without saying that the keys to success are patience and persistence, to be sure that we are not expecting a quick fix, an "over night" miracle, but mostly, to maintain something that is working, and not losing sight, and losing it, before it's too late...

Whether it is business or personal, the same rule rings true.

As well as patience and persistence, it is also imperative that we nurture our relationships with a constant and positive process, so we don't threaten neglecting the most important things that work to keep things going.
If we are expecting to get back something that we are not putting in, we will be wasting alot of energy.
We must continue to add fuel to our fire.

Like a flame in a fire, if we fail to keep it burning, the flames go out, and it takes much more energy to rekindle.

If we can be more proactive in understanding what our relationships need, and how to strengthen them, and keep them burning bright, constantly, then we take out the guess work of constantly wondering why things are not working in the first place.

We all have paradigms that perhaps leave us feeling limited, or in hindered beliefs of what our lives should look like, and what we should be doing, and how, and with who.. based on the stigma of everything around us, and what we grew up being told is the "norm."

I say toss anything inhibiting your growth , and add fuel to your the fire...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

BYOB

Perhaps the secret to the truth is simply believing in your own"
LoVe Di
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BYOB

As a child, I was brought up Catholic. I attended church, every Sunday with my parents. As I grew older, my views on life, and everything that surrounded me began to expand, as I expanded my horizons, and set out to find my true passions, and with that, my own truth.

Along my journey, I was fortunate not only to meet and build amazing friendships and relationships- some that last to this day, and others that have since gone- but also to understand so many different beliefs that people have, and have grown up practicing that have given them the opportunity to feel faithful and hopeful for life, and all it has to offer.

If I had to believe everything that everyone I have met believes, I would barely have enough time to breathe. As would you.

Believe me, there was a time when I thought I should understand every Religion, in order to understand everyone in my life.
That is not the case.
We can all try to state our case, and try to push our beliefs on others, but as it has it, the only thing we need to understand and practice is loving kindness, and integrity- first within.

To accept someone for their beliefs, and embrace that they are truly on their own path to truth is what our world just may need in order to open up to a compassionate and accepting energy.

So if you are invited to a Holiday Party this hectic season, BYOB.
Bring your own belief.
And leave any judgment on others' at the door.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Second Nature

"You don't want to stoop to that level; even if you really want to"
~Shauna, LuCy's roomate
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When we do things more than once-more often than not, they start to get comfortable, don't they?

Think of the things that you are good at; how much more effortlessly they become, the more practice you have.

In our growth and in our experiences, sometimes our determination to expand ourselves to get better at things grows. Make sense?

But, what about our determination to step out of a habit, rather than to better it?

For example, I will have to share this specific personal situation, and for all of you who know me; I am fine with doing so, if it will better others' understandings and expansion of their own.

I am so fortunate for my readership, with my "smiles", and I am very much compensated with emails, and phonecalls thanking me for my time, my creativity, and above all, my vulnerability in sharing, many times, the deepest parts of my personal experience, uneditted- in the hopes that my readers will benefit from my sharing.

Within my "fan mail" , can sometimes include not so favourable messages, which also allow for me to learn even more about myself through the process.

We can all be so ready to jump in and react in ways that we know best, through our past, and through our frustrations, and perhaps insecurities, or taking things personally.

I receipt of a "reader" unintentionally on my list (for 4 months, and must have just perhaps noticed 4 months worth of sMiLeS, in her bulk mail- and for that I am sorry lol) decided that she was not only upset about being on my list, she was furious that we as a whole, should "THINK GREEN AND HELP PEOPLE GET OFF THEIR COMPUTER ADDICTIONS, AND SPEND MORE TIME IN NATURE, INSTEAD OF STARING AT A SCREEN."

To which, I realized, I had a lesson in "personal grow regarding"
1) detachment 2) sympathy 3) compassion 4) patience 5) anger 6) judgement.

We have all been involved in situation that have taken place, perhaps less than favourable. But, we can all do ourselves a favour and realize that no matter what, things are going to happen, and people are going to say things, that perhaps we do not understand.

It is not what happens in life, but what steps we take in our reaction, to understand who we are, where we have been and how far we have come.

Today, I realized how far I have come, in my habit in reacting. I am blessed for this message, having replied to it, understanding how far I have come.

Thank you to all of my active readers...
And all of my "inactive" readers...

LoVe LuCy sMiLes

Raise The Bar

"If advice is free for the taking, can I still get a rain check?
LoVe Di
~~~~~~~~~
We all have so much in store, and sometimes we wonder what we are waiting for in life, that we can bypass the signs, and messages that stand right in front of us, telling us how far we have come, thanks to loving energies, reminding us that we are in fact growing, and ok to grow...

There are going to be days when we may feel afraid to ask for a helping hand, or to allow things into our lives that are supposedly "more" than we may feel we deserve.

But if they are in front of us, being offered, freely, we must at least give it that much; that it is free for the taking. People are here for each other to assist in raising the bar, in life, and holding their hands for us, when we may feel this bar is out of reach.

We also tend to undervalue our presence in other's "now."
Just as we are being helped on our path, and being guided to where we need to go, we are just as much being the strength for others who may not have the strength on their own, to continue on their path to greatness.
It just works that way.

We may have a broken dream here and there, and may fear going forward, because of so many fears that perhaps hinder our belief that we are capable of love, care, and support.

But believe when I say " you can always find strength in every moment you have lived thus far", and if someone offers a helping hand to get you to the next moment?

Just smile and say thank you... It will prompt you to do just the same for someone else.

Would you want to take that amazing feeling from someone?
I didn't think so...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Let Sleeping Dogs Lie

"I live a conscious life- I am very conscious of when it is time to close my mouth... I am half way there..." LoVe Di
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It doesn't seem to matter how far we come, in terms of learning, once in a while, our programs or egos can get the best of us.

Just because we are growing on our paths, whether spiritually or emotionally, our emotions are very powerful and can take the wheel- driving us, sometimes, out of our minds.

Thinking back to personal or professional conflicts in your life, maybe for some of us, not so far back, that perhaps seem to endure much longer than anticipated; can you sense a common theme?

It seems as though when we react based on our emotions, we can definitely stir the pot much more than if we are to take a look at the situation, perhaps stepping out of it, emotionally, to look at what is, from a different stand point.

All of us have been hurt in our lives in one point or another, so is it not always an easy task to separate from our emotions when we are struggling with a conflict. Not only do we attack from the emotions we are feeling at the moment, but our ego takes the initiative to remind us of all the other wonderful time we felt this way, causing chaos in our hearts, and on the surface.

We can say hurtul things, we can battle until blue in the face, when faced with feelings based on our core emotions.

Just as emotions strike a physical response in our bodies, we may tend to physically strike out with partners, friends, and family.

It only take a small change in our awareness of our behaviours to shift our beahviours.

So next time you sense your emotions are about to get the best of you, try to understand where they are coming and why.

And perhaps when you do so, you can leave them in the past, and let sleeping dogs lie...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

If You Will

"It's not so much the act of dreaming, but more our willingness to act on them!" LoVe Di
Waking up each morning, we are given a very generous opportunity. Just as when we were younger, during art class- given a blank paper, crayons, markers, paint, you name it- it was ours alone to go with it what we will.

We can look at our lives, as the same fortuity of limitless creation. As we chose one brush stroke; one colour at a time, perhaps mixing two colours we didn't realize can manifest into something beyond our mind's understanding; it is then, that our world will open up to boundless possibilities.

And just as, perhaps, when we were younger, our picture would not serve us, and we may crumble it up, throw it on the floor, and start over, we must be just as willing to do the same, now.

Will you take the chance at starting over, every day as a new day?

As a new month starts today, and also will end the year, we have the opportunity to look back on what we have lived through, how we chose to paint our picture, and what we have achieved. If we feel we want to continue sketching, painting, or colouring from the same canvas, let's do so. If we need to walk away from one that we don't know what stroke next to take, and work on a new piece, rather than mark up a potentially pretty piece, than do it.

Be willing to follow your heart, and be willing to paint the scenery of your life, how you view it, now. Only you know what colours work best, and what strokes lead to success for you.

Draw out all that you feel inside, and to master your own piece, one movement at a time.

You may be surprised with the end result.

LuCy sMiLeS

Musical Chairs

"The cost of living is high enough, I don't want to pay the price of living someone else's life." ~LoVe Di
If you think of an experience you have lived through, whether a tough time, traumatic, or worry some- if you are anything like me; what usually comes to mind is the support surrounding the experience, while you endured it, rather than the experience itself, or perhaps the music that you listened to to get your through.

Sometimes, the hardest times can come when you feel the pressure of having to react or be a certain way in a certain instance, depending on how you feel regarding expectations of you from your friends and family. This causing a sense of doubt, guilt and fear for making the wrong choices.

Every episode is individual, since each of us can only bring into it the knowledge, the understanding and our own personalities and behaviours. We cannot sit in someone else's experience.

Just as many have expectations or hopes for us, we also will find ourselves perhaps whispering under our breaths for others to make decisions, or root for them to "make the right choices" that we feel are right. Fortunately, there is no right or wrong, as what can be right for one, would be wrong for another, it just simply depends on the person.

Our most important role for each other, is to be sure that we give the energy of support, while each of us walks our path, perhaps tripping a few times, over each other, and maybe worse falling over our own two feet.

You owe it to yourself to do what you feel is best at the best of times and at the worst of times.
What's the worst that can happen if you give it your all?
And having a friend there to listen to you, when you may not even be able to hear yourself think, can be music to your ears.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Once Upon a Time

... And they lived happily ever after.
Wouldn't that be amazing, if all the stories and fables we were told as children were true, not just tales?
But they are just that, right? Tales...
Fables...
Right?

The tests and turmoil of the Princes and Princesses; the lessons and experiences brought on by evil goblins and enemies unlike anything we have accompanied- and thank Goodness.
I don't know about you, but if I found a Dragon in my forest, I may not find life so enchanting.

However, learning of strength attained after all the mental and physical anguish cast upon the characters.

How, in the end, whether all turned out well, or whether pain was indeed endured, but evil indeed eradicated- the moral of the story would leave us spellbound with a deep understanding of life, and it's lessons.

Everything we experience, in our own lives, is just as told in a tale. It's true...

We live, we love; and once in a while, we hurt and we move on- bigger, better, and stronger... We carry with us all the armor that we feel will personally protect us, and hopefully, we can let our guard down once in a while to participate and progress... We don't have to be a Prince or Princess to play a big part in the story.

As for happily ever after? I believe in fairy tales...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Members Only

As we get older, not only do our bodies change, but our interests, our talents, our creative outlets, and therefore our networks.

It was always taught as we grew up, the power of sharing, and of getting involved with groups, and clubs, to assist us in our social development.

We would try out for our favorite sports teams, educational programs, or sign up to be involved in a multitude of events that may not only peak our interest, but hone in on where our strengths lie.

If you are like most of us, we feel a need to be part of something, to help us in identifying ourselves, and our personalities.

Even as we grow older, and stronger, there will be days where we just feel like we don't fit in anywhere specific, and may cause us an identity crisis, or perhaps as much as a breakdown.

We all owe it to ourselves to breakdown our barriers and stimulate our lives with a motivation and focus that will serve as a positive outlet and a balance from the hectic work lives we are leading.

If we can take time for ourselves, and lead ourselves in the right direction by writing down and looking closely at what we enjoy doing, and where we enjoying going; perhaps we won't get stuck doing something, or being somewhere we just don't want to do or be.

And we are not always going to be part of every crowd, so take those times to be on your own, and make the most of every minute! There will always be times where we are pulled in every direction, so don't get stuck in a rut!

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Inquire Within

"If someone gave me not just a penny for my thoughts,
but another penny for every second thought, I would be one rich woman!"
LoVe Di

All of us have the select friends that we call as soon as certain "things" hit the fan or when push comes to shove, and then again when the dust settles, to thank them for enduring us throughout the storm.

It is so wonderful to have unconditional support that allows us comfort through tough times, and to remind us, even when we are acting crazy- that we are not crazy. Most of the time, anyway.

Just as important as it is to have friends to confide in, and a hand to reach out to hold, when we may feel like we can not take hold of situations, or sometimes what life has thrown us- we must believe that all that we need comes from within.

Our thoughts can get the best of us, and our hearts can find us confused many times throughout our lives.

Having second thoughts about what we want, where we are, and how we are feeling is absolutely normal. We all have times where we fear that making one decision may be so detrimental we start over analysing our every step, sometimes to the point of stepping down from making any decision at all.

Be ok with stopping and sitting with yourself, before moving forward, if you are not sure which move to make.
Not making a decision is a decision in itself.
Make time for yourself and believe that you already know.

When opportunity arises;
Inquire Within

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Just One of Those Things

I think I can; I think I can; I know I can... I just don't know where to begin..."
Love Di

It's back... Monday. Almost like we cannot remember that we had a weekend-
Saturday and Sunday are long gone and
we are already back into the swing of things.
 
Waking up refreshed and ready is one thing, but trying to remember
what we have going on, from last week can take a toll...
 
No matter what line of work we are in, we all have lists of things to do,
and we all have a lists of things we would much rather do.
 
Most of the time the hardest part of our to do list is knowing where to begin.
 
Any time we tackle the tasks, we always realize our efforts to execute things
are less energy draining that the witting, worrying, wondering
and wasting of time not wanting to get started.
 
Just because we have a million thing on our plates, doesn't mean we have to do
everything at once, or even think of more than one thing at a time.
 
My suggestion for time management, is do one thing at a time, take your time doing it,
and stop wasting your time worrying about absolutely everything else that you have to do,
that you are not doing, while you are trying to everything else. 
 Believe me it will be there waiting patiently for you start it, so don't kill yourself;
 
It's just one of those things...
 
LuCy sMiLeS 

The Tie That Binds

"If I had to do it all over again?
Sure, why not. Just let me change my shoes"

LoVe Di

Going back in our minds, we may shake our heads with "what was I thinking?" thinking of a select few people, ~way back in the day~ that we either were friends with; dated; or hey, maybe even married!

We look back and wonder why we did what we did, or who we did what we did it, with...

It is an interesting fact that we have changed dramatically since then, but moreover we have changed dramatically because of then.

All too often, we will analyze, judge, or as far as condescend the situations, or worse- the people that we have experienced life with, and even worse, we will blame them for where we are today- if where we are just so happens to be less than our favorable dream life we are still waiting for to be handed to us, or for some, mailed to us, first class stamp...

Every instance, every person, and every experience we have is so important, but the most important part is that we are all connected, and what allows us to grow and learn is everyone we have ties with, and all of the bonds we have created- of course some broken, but nonetheless, they have been brought to us to build our lives, and our hearts.

Love is blind, perhaps. But opens our eyes to too many things to not let it in...
So don't lose sight of love, and embrace the ties that bind you to those you love, and never forget to remind them...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

We'll See

"Last time I checked, I was still me.. I guess I have big shoes to fill"

LoVe Di
" We'll See"

I pray for so many things, hoping I will see some sort of answer... patience being top of them all. I never wanted to lose sight of what was important, but I always wanted to see answers to my prayers as soon as possible! Remember our parent's answers to so many questions? Different question_ always the same answer... "We'll see!"

So many times in our own lives, we chose not to allow for the best conclusion through proactive determination and ambition- but instead wait for other than ourselves for who we are and where we end up...
How is that possible that we can make all things possible; limited? But chosing "us" how others see us, rather than "who we are?"
Let's believe that we are capable of all things possible and create all of the experiences we believe we can see, visible, and moreover- possible for ourselves....

If I had known that I can have everything I ever wanted, ever- well... I have a bit of catching up to do...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

So Far, So Good!

"Too bad life couldn't be like a skill testing question:
Fun times + 100 X (Laughter + Adventure) - Broken Hearts=...

LoVe Di

So Far, So Good!
Sure, if we had it our way, we would exchange all the experiences not so attractive that we have endured and add in more care free, and venturesome situations to take their place.

It's not always easy to wake up feeling like everything is going splendid, and our lives are superb, when in fact, we may be feeling a lack for things we wished we had in our lives; things we wish we had done differently, or as much as even done at all...

Of course we all have days when it seems like to even set foot on the floor may feel like it is setting a milestone, when our thoughts may be miles from attending to any affirmative action.

But look at it this way; if you can look back on who you have been, what you have done, and who you have helped along the way, you may notice that all the not so splendid experiences you have encountered were integral for you to be strong enough and moreover courageous enough to make the next decisions.

For as far as I can remember, all of what I have personally experienced was so fundamental to where I am now, that taking anything out of the equation could perhaps be a recipe for disaster!

I think we should recognize that we have done a pretty good job so far with our choices, including the few detours we may have taken, and crossroads we have stopped and pondered on for a little longer than we may think could have been; so let's scrap any woulda shoulda coulda's we may have otherwise accepted, and exchange them for a good time!

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Enter at Your Own Risk

"Sometimes we must go in the entirely opposite direction to make any real progress..."
LoVe Di

Our minds are very powerful things. We know this. We read about it, we talk about it, and most importantly- we experience it for ourselves, just how profoundly preeminent our emotions are in our lives, and how our minds set the stage for all that we live and breath.
Our connection between our emotional well being and our physical well being are so directly correlated, and we can become aware of how possibly exhausted our minds are, when our bodies decide to tire out as well.

As with our inner alarms, our physical selves speak up loudly for us to hear and take into account that there is need of a resting period.

Many of us have experienced burnout by not allowing our bodies to rest. We see the signs that it is time to slow down, but we keep going anyway.

This resting period may not only be a sign that our bodies need some TLC, but it could also be looked at as a possible sign that what we need to see in our lives- direction wise- may only be understood when we slow down the pace, and perhaps stop for a moment to take in what we may not otherwise have been able to take in, if we are taking off at a hundred miles an hour, in every direction.

So if your body sneaks in a sniffle and a sneeze; surrender to a sweet sleep, and follow your dreams...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Alarm WIll Sound

“If only we could put our inner clocks on vibrate…”

Like clockwork- well actually, literally clockwork; our alarms will ring, bright and early for us to start our Monday mornings, making a fresh start to the week.

As much as we not only detest this sound- many times, in our attempts to deny it, we will press snooze as much as we can without risking being late getting to the pressing issues at work, waiting for us.

Just as our alarms will sound in our homes, our inner alarms do just the same to allow us to acknowledge when it is time to pay attention to something. Our inner alarms act like a warning sign when the subtle signs of our intuition are not strong enough to grab our attention. Kind of like a strong cup of espresso to get our brains functioning where they certainly wouldn't otherwise have the slightest clue.
These alarms sound loudly enough for us to have to stop , and take action. Whether or not we chose to listen and execute a task of growth, or press the emotional snooze button a few more times- we can be sure that “just like clockwork”, the alarm will sound again.

We all have wake up calls, it's whether or not we chose to sleep in that makes all the difference...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Who Am I Kidding?

"Delivered however many ways, the truth still comes out just the same" 
LoVe  Di 
With all of the relationship connections we have in our lifetime, not to mention, all at one time, let alone our relationship we are trying to work on with ourselves, it's no wonder we can get a bit confused about our feelings, our intentions, and of course the intentions of those around us.  
When it all comes down to it, we truly, in our hearts can sense a comfort, a trust and an acknowledgement of what relationships are working for us, and what relationships we needn't try so hard on making work.
 
Not to say that we should just up and leave, giving up on something that could prove to be a wonderful energy in our life, but there are times when we must take the high road, which is in fact, not trying to pave out a road, where a road needn't be paved.
 
No all relationships are meant to work out to the very end of time, but many are here for the time needed for us to not only figure out what we do want to surround ourselves with, but also what doesn't fit in our lives, to better our lives- and that is ok, too.
 
We owe it to ourselves to understand as much about ourselves, so we can give to others, in ways that will allow them to grow and be the best they can be, however that relationship may look like; but also understand, that we shouldn't kid ourselves into believing that every single connection is a lifetime matrimony.
 
That's what friends are for, however they come and go, or come and stay.
 
We will have those that stay with us forever, some for a while, others for a moment, and a few for a glance.
 
We can't have it all with everyone, or we would leave no one for everyone else.
Although to have it all would be wonderful, wouldn't it?
 Who am I kidding?
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS
 

It Goes Without Saying

"Success doesn't happen overnight, but a good night's sleep won't hurt my chances of it happening! " 
LoVe Di

It Goes Without Saying Putting something in place, to invest for tomorrow, as we live in the present moment may not be the easiest and simplest way to spend our energy.  We want to make the most of our moments, but also want to be sure that we are considering the safety of our future.  
There are so many stresses we all face, individually, that may make us feel a bit alone, scared, and often times a bit nervous as  to what is the next best thing to do.
 
But besides having our own personal fears, we must realize, it is in our own best interest to share our thoughts, open to those who love us, and communicate what is on our minds.  You would be surprised as to how many friends and people in your life are actually going through many of the same issues, and fears in their personal lives.
 
Sometimes by speaking our mind, what we need to do to help us  feel is most comfortable path for us to take, to make it to where we know we want to be, can be even more clearly understood!
 
It goes without saying that friends lending an ear can be just the support we need, but to go without saying anything, we will never know!
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

I Believe So

"My brilliance shows up at my most playful moments" ~ LoVe Di

Think of a time when things all seemed to work out effortlessly.
Ok, don’t strain your mind so much- there has been a time- you are just thinking too hard.

Do you notice when you focus on things you want so badly, it seems as though they are harder to achieve?
If you are like every single one of us, we are very productive in making things harder on ourselves, and overly complicating matters, when, as a matter of fact; once you surrender to the outcome, and release all the tension of trying and trying to make something happen, it may just happen, after all.

Not to say, of course, that we mustn’t take action in following steps to bring us success, but it is also imperative for us to loosen the reigns a little bit, stop forcing a thought to fruition, and believe that just by taking time and putting the positive amount of energy into our goals, daily, and sometimes just taking one extra, but effortless step; we will reap the fruits of our labour.
If you can believe that your life is in order and that in order to attain all that you ever wished, you just must first believe it is so, as absolutely yours to be granted.
Believe it or not, and that’s exactly what you will get.
And if you are having a hard time believing in yourself, borrow the belief a friend has in you.
It’s just as, if not, even more powerful
I don’t know.. I just believe so.
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Divide and Conquer

"Knowing where to begin is half the battle"
LoVe Di

Not only is there so much unknown in our lives,but so many things wefeel we needto understand completely and thoroughly before we can begin a project, task or job.

Because we may be so intimidated by so many things that are in our face, at once; we tendto throw our hands up in the air-fearing with frustration and admitting defeat before we even set our feet in to test the waters.

If we can take all that we need to achieve, create a plan of action, that involves divvying up the priorities, so we can see clearly what we have in front of us, along the way of success, perhaps we can take all the despair we are carrying with us, and finally conquer the chaos and in turn the circumstance we fear the most.

Don't lose your way, because you feel you are not strong enough to take on battles! Banish any belief that is not supporting you and bring on all the achievements you can handle!

We can all have a handle on life, one cupful of confidence at atime...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

PHONE A FRIEND

"My idea of a good time is to make it one!"
LoVe Di
~~~~~~~~
We have all been there. Times get tough; we feel in a rut, and things just aren't going as we planned for them to.

Sometimes, even standing on our own two feet seems like an impossible feat.

No matter what challenge, what issue or what traumatic situation you are faced with; many times just the voice, shoulder or hand of a friend can make even the hardest of times seem bareable.

We are all going to go through many tests of strength in our lives, be it financial hurdles, personal paranoias, you name it... But if you can name off a few amazing and supportive friends that will take your call and be there for you when you are in need of them; things will look up. I can promise you that.

I know, I have been there, and I have had the financial hurdles from long distance dialogues to prove it!

Not to say that we can cure a choas or crisis with just a call, but there is definitely hope for us yet, when we can call out to those who love us, and are willing to listen to us when we may feel like we are on our last breath.

Just breathe in and breathe easy knowing not only will this, too, pass; but remember also not to pass up the opportunity to phone a friend, when you need.
They are always literally a phonecall away.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Front & Center

Who doesn't like a little drama?
Ok, admittedly, some of us more than others, but it's safe to say, in life, we all have varying roles, some that are seemingly more dramatic at times... Other times, we play more of a supporting role, or perhaps just a by-stander...
 
No matter what role we play as the days play on, we can, inevitably play it as best we can.  No one day leaves you more or less important that the day before. 
So why act like it.
 
There are going to be days we wish we could hide under the covers, where other days where we are so excited to hop out of bed and get the day started, we may even forget to wear underwear, we are so excited
(note: not a big deal, if you can at least remember to put on your pants).
 
But, it is important that you wear the pants in your relationship with yourself, and at least put in the attempt to show up 100% no matter what the case may be.
 
In case you are ever wondering why you may still be waiting for that Award Winning life of glitz and glamour- whatever that is for you- take a good hard look at how you play your part.  Be sure to stand front and center, allowing yourself to not only have the lights shine on you, but to shine bright, with your unique talent.
 
You don't have to break a leg, but break out of your shell a little, and prepare to accept a standing ovation, and own it...
Just don't push others off the stage in your quest for success.
That's just bad form!
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

For Goodness Sake!

Oh, we have all been there... We make decisions, or contemplate our choices, that we know, very well, are not in our best interest to follow through with.  
Of course, no choice is the wrong choice, as it leads us into learning a lesson that we obviously have not passed, prior to this point.
 
Our worlds are always changing, and amidst this, our worlds collide with so many different people and different circumstances, that sometimes, what we may feel is right, at the moment, may be a place we would never set foot in, in hindsight.
 
And just as so; sometimes, we are faced with the fact that we are further along in our "becoming" that we may have lead on, to ourselves. This can be just as scary as being disapointed for not becoming who we want to be.
 
If we wish to attract all that we every imagined, we must first imagine that we are worthy of good things, but moreover, make choices that come from the goodness of our hearts.
 
They say good things come to those who wait, but if you can do good things, while you are waiting, perhaps you can not only take years off your life, but make these the best years of your life!
 
I'm just saying, for goodness sake!
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Baggage Claim

In our lives, we go through many transitions, 
whether personal, professional, spiritual- you get the picture.
 
As the picture of our lives changes, we not only seem to
change our exterior environment, but our inner selves
and all that we carry with us, in our minds, and in our hearts.
 
Our decisions as to what we keep with us, is far more important than we may think.
Much of this may be far more beneficial to leave behind,
rather than to weigh us down, as we progress.
 
When we decide to move on, or to make a shift in
our personal course, we must consider, of course,
what we need and needn't pack with us... We all have
"baggage", which can hinder our path,
If we chose to bring it with us,
instead of learn from it, and leave it well enough alone,
as we walk forward.
 
Just as we  gather all of
the necessities to take on a trip,
always realizing we could have done without many of the
items that are not really going to serve us in our journey;
we can do just the same in our travels in personal growth.
 
Claim all that you own, emotionally, so you can work through
your life with knowing how you got to here, but know,
that going forward, you are not obligated to continue with everything!  
So lighten up! 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS 

By The Book

When was the last time you felt successful? Or can you even remember?   To look further, we must understand, in our minds, what the vision of success?  
How it looks like to us. Our ideas of success will differ not only geographically, and demographically, but it will certain differ dependent upon what we have been breed to believe success was, growing up, in our own households, and in what we surrounded ourselves with.  
To live in a society where success is measured by money, education, assets, or specific accomplishments recognized by highly acclaimed decision makers, we may, individually be ultimately brushing off what our own true sense of success is.
 
To truly be successful, is to truly be following our dreams, taking individual steps to be in integrity with our set vision, and ourselves, and to walk a path that we, for ourselves, are creating with the our best interest at heart, and those around us.
 
We don't have to attempt to be what others have been, or do what others are doing, to make it successfully, in our lives.
 
Measure your success by doing what feels right, in your heart, creating your own destiny, based on using your own skills, talents and actively working on continually being the best "you".
 
Don't feel pressured to go by the book in all instances in your life, unless you wrote the book, yourself.

Out on A Limb

Since our early childhood, we have experienced many situations, many interesting or striking complex affairs that have ultimately lead us to where we stand, today, and how we stand up and show up in our lives, and our relationships.
Our personalities, our behaviour and our views on a multitude of issues and instances will highly differ, no matter how close and similar we may be to our friends, and those who we share our lives with.

While some of us will be more open to taking a risk and putting it all out there, with vulnerabilities visible, it sometimes will take others a bit of time, before they can trust in taking an extra step out of their comfort zone to see what the world has to offer.

Both of which are understandable, once we understand a person in their authenticity.

We can sometimes be blue in the face expelling energy in our attempt to want to show people what ideas, decisions and resolutions would be in their best interest, when we may feel they are lying stagnant and not growing, out of their programs.
But what works for one does not always work for another.
We are all growing at our appropriate pace.

Just as one may feel it best to take the risk right away, and jump into life from the get go, we must sometimes go out on a limb, and allow for others around us to walk their path, as theirs, comfortably., without pushing them to show up, where they are not ready to show up.

Showing up in relationships is showing support for each other no matter where we stand, just be sure not to compromise your own place and posture.
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Surround Sound

"Whatever you do, add a little music to it"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~
Surround Sound

Buses, car horns, police sirens, children screaming, dogs barking.
I use my mornings to walk in the world, and look at it in all it has to offer.
No ipod, no MP3 player, during this time, to mask out all the noise, but instead to take in the surroundings, with no judgement, no expectation, but just what is. Music in its most natural form.

Surrendering to the surrounding sounds of life is an amazing step in living in the moment, just for what it has to offer, not for what you expect from it.

As it is imperative to see through life through every lovely and perhaps not so light and gay offering, it is in the acceptance of what surrounds us that allows us a wonderful way of looking into what we are involved in.

We have every opportunity in front of us to be where we want to be. Perhaps not overnight, but certainly with due time. Surrounding ourselves with positivity, love, courageous and supportive friends is instrumental in our growth, and the growth of others. But first, we must accept what is going on, and growing on, around us, and acknowledge the world in it's order.

Take a step in the world, with eyes of truth and acceptance, and make a point of taking a moment to breathe in the realness of it all.

Live in the moment, and make the best of it as best you can, for what it is worth. There is music all around us, sometimes it is just about turning up your awareness a notch, to make out the words.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Please Stand Clear

"It is one thing to know what our best qualities are, but another thing to use them"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~
PLEASE STAND CLEAR

In our lifetime, we not only spend much of our time learning, but we are then asked to evaluate which subjects we thrive in, and therefore will 'major' in during our days of educational lessons, tests, and finals.

Not so finally, we attempt to find the roles we can jump into that will utilize our talents, challenge us in a positive and impactful way, while we hope to make a deep impact on others.

While it is great to do a great job, we are all entitled to do that which makes us happy, and fulfilled; not only successfully, but wholeheartedly. There are millions of opportunities out there, but it is important to take on that which that brings out the best version of us, rather than trying to fill shoes that are not ours.

When push comes to shove there is nothing wrong with doing all we can to conquer the circumstances to get ahead, but don't push yourself to be or do something that is not called upon you to do.

So if you are uncertain as to where you see yourself and what you need in your life, take a moment to evaluate your strengths, your interests, and your capabilities!

When making life decisions, whether big or small, make a point to stand clear in your intentions, and watch nature take it's course.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

None The Less

"Sometimes the simplest thing to do can seem the hardest"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~
Whether we are thinking in our sleep; while we eat;
while we are supposed to be using our
thoughts to focus on our jobs, we are always constantly thinking.

It is our thoughts that create our lives, since we
manifest that of which we create in our minds.
We know this, and yet, we still consciously, as much as subconsciously
make decisions to think of, and worry about less important things,
which are not allowing us to engage in a life that is abundant.

We surround ourselves
with only what we feel worthy to.
We create and attempt to maintain relationships that may not be in our best interest- simply because we think we must make it work, or we have failed.

Failure doesn't come from acting on something, even if it means leaving a situation, a job, or an environment that is not serving you. By taking positive action, we are using our strength to create a life that will allow us to flourish.

By doing so, we are not just serving ourselves, but we are also enabling those around us to grow in a better, and healthier direction.

It is important not only to focus on the great things that we can have, but it is also imperative that we take the step in dissipating the thoughts and the areas in our life that we are focusing on, that are giving us less, rather than more.

So while you are building and manifesting the life of your dreams, be easy on yourself: take your thoughts, and
"None the Less"

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Make Your Mark

"I know it was worth it, if I have the scars to prove it"
Love Di
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"Make Your Mark"
When the new week sets in, we set up in our minds what we see ourselves tackling and accomplishing. Many times, as much as we would like, a new week does not mean a clean slate, to start over. For most of us, we will carry forward unfinished business from the week before that may make us feel a bit overwhelmed to get going.

As with business, our personal lives can take a toll from all the unfinished issues and energy that we still, today, carry with us, from yesterday's situations that we have not officially closed out.

But this doesn't have to be a deal stopper for moving on; instead a realization of what is holding us back, that we have not dealt with yet could be set in place.

Just as it is best, when finishing a week of work, to organize and take inventory on what has been left over, and needs to be taken care of; we must also take care of ourselves, on a personal level, if we are making changes, and moving forward to a new chapter, just as we would a new week.

Take the lessons, and the marks that may have even as much as scarred you, but caused you're a deeper understanding of who you are, of course- but be sure to close out any unfinished personal business and take personal responsibility when you need, so you can move on with a clear head and an clean slate.
Only then will you be ready to make your mark, on your own.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

No Purchase Necessary

"Buy me things, and I will thank you;
Bake me things, I will love you forever"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Do you ever notice that when you feel something is missing, the first instinct we do, as humans, is reach for the credit card, and the keys and make a mad dash to purchase in our attempts to fill whatever the void is, we are experiencing?

I know, for me, in my many years as a woman, I can recall the many times I felt empty, my first course of action was to fill my place, emptying my wallet.

We cannot release the emotional burdens we carry by burdening ourselves, financially, and we certainly will not be in a better place simply because our place is looking a bit better from the new and temporarily exciting purchases.

In our attempts to find that happiness that we are all seemingly in pursuit of, no new purse or suit will have the answers, no matter how much time we spend and money we spend trying to mask ourselves with things.

The thing is this: We have everything inside of us, that we need, so forget this need to surround ourselves with things that have no value in our lives, no matter what the price tag says.

There is value in believing that we are priceless and worth everything our heart desires to attain, with no purchase necessary!

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Hold On For Dear Life!

"It is not the have, but the hold, that is dear..."
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
We have all lost things, or people in our lives, and in reflection, have wondered if we had done, or said something different, would things be different. It is never easy, going through a transition, when we may have only wished for things to be different.

So much of our time is wasted, with thinking, and focusing on the things in our lives, which, if taken away, would actually not mean much, and would mean no real loss.

So, why is it that we hold on to those things?

If you take inventory in your life as to what you hold dear, be sure, while you still have it near and dear to your heart, that you cherish and care for it with all of your heart.

Jobs, material belongings, even memories will come and go, but don't let go of what is important; of what you cannot imagine living without.

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

One Fell Swoop

"Sometimes all happens at once; For all these things, all we need is eachother"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Maybe it is just me, but it seems that at a time, when we are reaching a higher level of Spirituality and "Awakening" many of us may call it; we are also facing much despair and fear, economically, and socially.

Why is this so?

If we look deeper at all that is taking place, we can see the protection of the universe, and it's plan to ensure care among all, and among all things that are existing around us.

When it seems much is caving in, either in our own lives, or the world as a whole, we are that much more intuitively preparing ourselves, collectively, to assist and nurture under such duress.

Once we change our habits, we change our lives.
Making a habit of working together, and loving and supporting each other, makes getting through even the toughest of times seemingly easier.

Not every day is going to be spent tip-toeing through the tulips, but if we can surround ourselves with those that help us grow, and help those who may need a but more of a nudge to keep going, we may be surprised at just how fast our weeds will die, leaving room for the most beautiful flowers we ever saw.

It only takes one thought to change the world, and if we can do it in one fell swoop, there is hope for us yet!

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Above All Else

Above All Else  
For many of us, our minds start running before we have had a chance to take one step out of bed.
And to make matters more complicated, we play many roles depending on the people we are spending our time with.
 
As the day progresses, and we interact with our friends, colleagues, and families; much of our energy can be exhausted, before we have even had the opportunity to do for ourselves.
 
Many of us naturally feel the need to be there for all those that surround us, but may not realize the toll it takes not only on our time, but on our bodies as a whole.
 
We are aware that our moods are affected by our  environment; not only the place we are at, physically, but those who we include in this space.
 
In order to maintain balance, we must, above all else, be true to ourselves, and true to what it is that we need in our life that will maintain harmony and true love.
 
Then, and only then, can you give enough without going
above and beyond what your body can handle,
allowing you to still have a handle on life.
 
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS
 

Just Like That!

"Take it for what it's worth, not for what you expect to gain from it"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Have you ever decided to do a little bit of tidying up, to find yourself moving every piece of furniture, opening and emptying every drawer and cupboard to find your entire living space in disarray? You realize that what was once a small project to subtly enhance your surroundings ends up in a giant mess, you don't know how you will be able to put all the pieces together?


We overwhelm ourselves looking at the whole picture and we scare ourselves with uncertainty as to where to begin to get back to whole.

Focus solely on one small and delicate area at a time, most of the puzzle will be pieced together before your eyes.

Don't get stuck on circumstance, this space you are in will change whether its the best place or the worst place you believe you have ever been.

Life is a series of lessons given one course at a time. So like a deliciously prepared 5 course meal- don't think of how the appetizer tasted while you are eating the main course, and don't envision the sweetness of the dessert when you are eating the salad.

Just enjoy every experience while you have it. And don't worry if you flop the a dish now and then.

Practice will make perfect; for you.
LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Dream On

"If my mind is capable enough to dream it up, the hardest part is done"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
What is it going to take for us to believe that we are not only entitled to all that we desire, the capablilities to achieve this lies within. It's in the palm of our hands, we just have to open up to it.

I have been on the side of despair; just as much as having been on the side of conquering some insurmountable feats in my life.
We all have.

Each and everyone of us has been through that of which we may have temporarily deemed impossible.

As much as we can worry for the worst things to happen, we can use that same amount of energy to visualize and create in our minds what we dream to be, in our lives.
With life's challenges comes rewards of self worth, self reliance, and self love. I can brave a storm, as long as I know that I am the one who walked it for me, for all the right reasons.

Do what you must for you, and pay attention to all that your thoughts are telling you, they only your best interest at heart...

We all pay the price for our actions, so if you want to make life easy, act on your dreams, walk with integrity, and wear the right shoes for the weather.
The results will be priceless!

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Truly, Madly, Deeply

"If you can't give it your all, don't do it at all"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
If I had all the answers, chances are I would be typing in my own private Villa somewhere in the Heart of Costa Del Sol, Spain, sipping on a Margueritta and nimbling on tapas.


As it has it, looking around where I really am typing, it looks like I still have some research to do.

We all have the opportunity just as fairly as the next person, to have all the world has to offer.
The key to getting to that place we drool over is to be sure that what we are doing is what we truly, madly and deeply love.

Spending warm nights, with gentle breezes and luxuries beyond our wildest dreams may not happen overnight, but when we put our all into things, we will reap the benefits- it is just a matter of time, and patience while doing it.

It's a world of wonder, and a world of wonderful offerings.
Believe in yourself enough that you take in all the air and breathe from the deepest part of your heart.

Choose things to do that you are excited to put your heart and soul into...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

Wide Open Spaces

"I figured out I can have anything my heart desires, as long as my heart is in the right place- go figure"
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Everyone of us has an energy field around us, that, whether or not we believe it, can pretty much carry us to the ends of the Earth.

It is a matter of our choice on how closed, or how open we wish to be.

To add to that, our vibrations also play a big role in our happiness, and in how happy those around us are.
We are all so influenced by our friends, and loved ones- so much that many times, we can take on their energy and vibrations, without recognizing it, hindering our personal growth.

Do you ever notice your behaviour, or your state of being can be quite different depending on the different people you surround yourself with?
Who you automatically laugh with; without even saying word.
Who you hold your tongue; or hold your thoughts from.

While it is our responsibility to be true to ourselves, and not blame others for putting us in certain "moods" or negative mindsets; we do, as highly empathetic human beings, allow for this to take place.

We all have it is us to be the best us, and we all learn from each other, so many things about ourselves, to help us on that path to greatness!

It is also important, however, while finding our true selves, to stay true to ourselves, and do all that we can to make the best choices for ourselves, be that what it may that will keep us at the best vibration.

This helps others rise to the occasion to rise high and be successful.

So take time out to help your friends, and all those you love, but be sure that you are making the best choices for yourself, first, and you will be able to best help them.
It is never selfish to take care of yourself, it actually would be selfish not to.

Love LuCy sMiLeS

Come Again?

"Even if I wanted to do it all over again, I wouldn't know where to begin...
So I will just keep on going..."
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
It seems that every time I second guess myself, something or someone so amazing will come into my view, to remind me that I am really not to waste time guessing about life, and simply spend it living.
We are all so often staring so far into the future, and over our shoulders, hoping it will work out, but not so much as to realize that we create our future, now.
And our past no longer exists.

We are actually very smart, and more "on it" than we give ourselves credit for.
And when situations arise, that we feel we already took care of, just know that there is yet another lesson in it- it is not that you failed the first time, but that you took care of what you could, with what you knew how, and with all that you had in you at the time.

There are absolutely no wrong turns in life.

If you do a u-turn, and come again to where you already were- don't wonder why. Whether you think you are repeating something, you are not.

We are all progressing, and ever changing, moment to moment, different and better than we were moments before.

Even when life throws us for a loop, and we feel we have went back a few steps; we can just step back, look up and enjoy the view- it won't ever come again...

LoVe,
LuCy sMiLeS

However

"Much of life's confusion can be conquered by the simple act of smiling- at least you will look less confused."
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Our minds are bombarded with programs, judgment, fear, and past experiences; it is not always so easy to be certain what is right in front of us...
No matter how many books we have read through, or self development courses we have worked through; we are complicated beings. Ever changing, every single day.

How can we know everything?

We can, however, embrace what is in front of us, at any given moment, whether we completely understand it or not; instead to understand how it can help us see who we are, and how we are seeing the world. Every moment has something very powerful, it's a matter of how you look at it.

Not to mention, we struggle trying to always figure out how we are going to get from point A to point B, when all the while as long as we know why we want something, the "how" will soon follow, not only effortlessly, but understandably.

We can have all we want, the universe is generous like that; So don't spend so much time wondering the "how in the world you are going to get there", or "how the heck did this or that happen to you", so much that you forget what or why you wanted something to begin with- you will lose your mind completely!

We can be patient and gentle with ourselves-making a point, from point A to point B, to be as open as we can, as loving and respectful as we can, and true to ourselves, as we can, however we can.
We know it's not the destination, so much as the journey, so believe that however your life is right now, is just how it is to be; however, you have the power to make it better, if you wish...


Just don't ask me how!


LoVe,
LuCy sMiLeS

Strong as a OX

"I may feel small, sometimes; but I secretly know I can move the world with a simple thought; To me, that's huge..."
Love Di
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Interestingly enough, sometimes, we may think we get it, but there is still much more that we need to learn.
A feather over my feet obviously didn't allow me the perspective of how things can be easy if we allow them to.

I have since met the bird.

Without coincidence, I walked to a place out from my usual path, in my own backyard, to find a bird, now, not a feather, fall at my feet.
She was beautiful and gentle, yet I did have to ask why she remained so close, not scared so much as to fly from me, as we stood toe to toe.

My first instinct was that she was hurt- which I realized she was.
She was wounded at the chest, not allowing her to fly.
I wept in shock and she looked, still gentle, and so put together, though she was far from. She stood breathing, as I started to lose composure wondering what to do to help, as she remained without any sign of fright.
...........
Hours had passed, as she would stand there, still breathing, believing in life as it may.
Not knowing for certain, that hers, personally, would be a life, possibly taken today.

I prayed and I thought of her, as the sun would go down, and as it has it, high winds and soon, rain.
In the desert, I wondered of what fright she must feel, all alone, and still bearing her pain.

But she stood there, alone, and she took all that came her way, she put all of her doubts aside.
This small wounded healer, so innocent and sweet, not once has she ever since cried.

With the fear of her passing, finding her not surviving her storm, at last I walked away, and then slept.
I awoke to a backyard, minus one wounded; for she was furthest from anything inept.

She had not only experienced- she sat, patiently and persistently, believing that life takes its course.
And if you can open your heart out to faith and to love, there is no need for a space of remorse.

A small bird has taught the largest of lessons, of which I will carry each day.
That is it not that which happens, but how you react, and your strength when come as it may.

Love LuCy sMiLeS