The Tie That Binds


"If I had to do it all over again?
Sure, why not. Just let me change my shoes"

LoVe Di

Going back in our minds, we may shake our heads with "what was I thinking?" thinking of a select few people, ~way back in the day~ that we either were friends with; dated; or hey, maybe even married!

We look back and wonder why we did what we did, or who we did what we did it, with...

It is an interesting fact that we have changed dramatically since then, but moreover we have changed dramatically because of then.

All too often, we will analyze, judge, or as far as condescend the situations, or worse- the people that we have experienced life with, and even worse, we will blame them for where we are today- if where we are just so happens to be less than our favorable dream life we are still waiting for to be handed to us, or for some, mailed to us, first class stamp...

Every instance, every person, and every experience we have is so important, but the most important part is that we are all connected, and what allows us to grow and learn is everyone we have ties with, and all of the bonds we have created- of course some broken, but nonetheless, they have been brought to us to build our lives, and our hearts.

Love is blind, perhaps. But opens our eyes to too many things to not let it in...
So don't lose sight of love, and embrace the ties that bind you to those you love, and never forget to remind them...

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS

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