Well, Look At You!

"In love, that someone is you." Love LuCy

By the time we have reached thirty-something, we have all experienced at least a few relationships that have allowed us to take our journeys to a deeper level understanding, about ourselves.

It takes quite a while, for many of us, not only to figure out what we truly desire for a happy and healthy bond with those we choose to spend our lives with, but how we can voice what this looks like.

Of all that we wish to have, many times we can be confused as to why, when we seem to say what that is, we are not receiving, in return. It is easy for us to stomp our feet, and throw our hands in the air, in defeat for not being able to attract that "one."

We sit and ask ourselves "why" it seems we are just not getting to that place where we can finally lay our heads, and our hearts, in rest. Many times, we may even find ourselves attracting the same thing, over and over again, blaming ourselves for not being good enough, or strong enough, or clear enough to see the signs.

The signs that we are truly missing, however, is that all that we are attracting, is all that we are, or all that we are in fact asking for, whether we believe this or not. So once we change our belief we can be ready to change what we allow in.

And, until we are able to look at ourselves, and look at our thoughts that in turn create our actions, and behaviours, outward, we will only then, bring in the love that we are looking for, and yearning for, forever. Whatever we feel about ourselves, we will attract.

Change how we feel about ourselves, and change what we attract in our lives. We can move out of energies that are not working, and feel proud of ourselves for moving on.

Which is absolutely wonderful.But until we move forward in our own personal thoughts, of healthy love of ourselves, those same unhealthy inner demons will rear their ugly heads, again, just with a different face. It is as easy and as complicated as that!

LoVe,

LuCy sMiLeS