Advanced Formula

"There is never only one choice in life." LoVe Di

It would be great, wouldn't it? If we could enter all the issues we carry into a machine and press a button to get the quick fix formula? We type in how big the issue is, what it includes, whether it is something haunting us, a current crisis in work, communication breakdown, or financial fuss. We then press "problem solving solvent" and the answer comes on screen of what to do to fix it!

And for some of us, we would like to take some past experiences that we feel we could have simply done without, and simply press delete.
How fun?

Unfortunately, we are all so different, and our problems and issues have such unique characteristics, we haven't had the creative ability to make such a machine manifest.

Until then, I have some quick ideas and tips that may help us.

We are all going to be going through something. We always are. That is living. Learning through going through things, and seeing how we can handle them.
And sometimes we go through things a few times, to remind us that how we handled them perhaps needs tweaking. We just take the test over, and get better results!

Whether breakups or breakdowns, we have the ability to walk through, and hold our heads up high.

We are advancing at our own pace, by learning about ourselves, through others, and through trying times.

If we can just understand that we are making our way, on our path, with each step, and take them for what they are, we are in fact growing.

We all wish we could rub a lamp and make all our wishes come true, right here and now- but isn't it more fun being able to know that we in fact did it for ourselves, by getting through all the hardships and healing our wounds with patience and persistence?

I think so, but maybe that's because I have chosen to. Can you, too?

LoVe LuCy sMiLeS