Meet Me Half Way

"The first part of change, is accepting it."
LoVe LuCy

Of all of the individual things we wish to achieve in our lifetime, one common goal we have is to create, maintain and embrace long lasting, and loving relationships.
It can be friends, intimate connections, or work related relations- all of which we wish for these relationships to be at their best.The issue with this, is to be open to allowing the dynamic of each connection to be as it is, in its most healthy form.
This is where it may be more difficult than not, but by staying true to ourselves, the truth of how to conserve our connections will follow.Yes, we will struggle, whether it is for power, understanding, or because others are seemingly more demanding.How do we get to a place where there is harmony in our connections that will allow us that feeling of joy, and moreover comfort with those around us?Relationships are not always going to be easy, and rightfully so.They are here in our lives, to teach as more about ourselves, than anything else.The importance of relationships is not only to hold others dear, and show honesty and loyalty, but to also have that start from within.By meeting each other half way and both equally communicating what is important, we can make for a better understanding.
The most integral part of meeting each other half way, is in the follow through that is carried out, after open communication occurs.And holding our ground, by staying grounded to our commitments to ourselves, no matter what others may convey, or fall back on.
Our needs are valuable, and therefore should be respected with high value, from those whom we share our hearts with. The key to a successful relationship, is having that respect of loyalty of our needs appreciated and abided by, because we are worthy of such.It is important to be in alignment with our core values and beliefs, and be strong enough to allow those in our lives, who can provide us with that same harmony, while we are connecting.
And to carry on with others, the best way for us.
Sometimes it is saying goodbye to what doesn't serve us; or making changes in the dynamic to directly improve how things are. We deserve happiness, and peace and to smile when we think of those we are bridging amazing ties with.
By taking responsibility for ourselves, and what we know will be what we need, going forward; we can successfully walk forward with those, who are then, in the same position as us to create this harmonic flow, together.
You will know when it is right,
because it feels right,
and you feel right.
LoVe, LuCy sMiLeS