We are not perfect. We have all made choices that were not perhaps in our best interest… We are human beings living and learning. It comes down to understanding, and forgiving ourselves and each other. Holding each other's hand when we need support, and not judging someone for their path. Making a commitment to be with our loved ones and offer support, while on their path. Support of other’s as their life be lived, understanding that we must allow each other the given right to slip, and sometimes fall.
To allow someone to go through what they need, to grow, and the readiness to pick each other up, when the time is right, is what brings us closer.
Once we realize we must not take each other's slips personally, we will be more than understanding, in relationships.
No one does anything to us, we simply accept or reject their miseries; taking them on as ours, creating our own story with their story's material.
If we can see that other’s miseries and other’s pain is not about us, but simply theirs- we can release the attachment we may have taken on, and instead make sure our loved ones know that we love them. We can see that this is their path to slip on...
And we have our own, as well.
But to hold hands through the slip ups, will lessen the fall.
When things come up and misery takes place-
and it will, because this is life-
being there and being the support system that our loved ones
need is all we can give.
And it just feels great!
LuCy sMiLeS
No comments:
Post a Comment