Terms of Endearment

Proposals, employment agreements, confidential agreements, contracts, marriage licenses...

There are so many legal documents that we have signed, or have written either for ourselves, or for corporations and businesses where we are conducting business, or about to engage in relationships with other individuals, or groups. Whatever the case may be.

Have you ever thought of your contract with yourself? Agreements with you, as an individual?

Don't you think you are worthy of an agreement? A contract with yourself to be certain you are getting the appropriate respect, from you?

We are so busy being sure that everyone else is being taken care of, and making sure that all things are in order with all other relationships that we fail to pay attention to ourselves and what we mean to ourselves.

There is alot of love to go around right? But what about loving ourselves?
You know the saying "You can't love others if you don't love yourself first."

So, we need to draft up our "Terms of Endearment" Show our love and affection for oursleves, and then we are ready for the drafted agreements with others!

Terms with ourselves, knowing our worth. Terms of having some affection for ourselves.

Sound silly? So?

Seriously, doing this will change your mindset. "I AM" statements are what I survive on. If you don't put it in writing, you may as well forget about it.Instead of dreaming of all the things you want in life, write them down like you already have it, whatever it is... Write down what you are, what you have, and why you have it.

The biggest obstacle in the way of what we don't have that we want sooooo badly, is the WHY we want something.

If you want a family, kids, or even a car, a great creative job, but you don't know why you want it, you will not receive it. The universe doesn't play games with us. We are who plays games with "us"... You heard me, and it is true...

So think about what it is you want, make sure you really want it, understand specifically why you want it, and then write it down like you already have it.

For example "I am attracting the man/woman of my dreams who respects; loves and cherishes me for all that I am, and loves me unconditionally." Instead of "Why can't I meet the man/woman of my dreams?", or " Where have all the good men/women gone? I have given up on true love"...

Writing it down, making it real, and respecting your worth is crucial, because if you don't who is going to? And you have to wake up every day and read your "I AM " statements or it will get forgotten... Just like that bill from teh departments store, or crefdit card company, for that outfit, or electronic item that you purchased and have yet to pay for that keeps collecting interest.

They keep on calling you, just like your mind does, saying "where is the payment you know you bought it (or signed it) but you are not paying attention to the fact that you own this agreement, so pay attention, own it, and do something about it.

So say it like you mean it, and instead of having terms for contracts, agreements, and licenses for everyone else, put yourself first, and everything else in your life will fall into place.

We all have needs, and all our needs should and can very well be met.

But if you don't even have your own dotted line to sign on, to be signed off with your own and very unique signature, who is going to treat you like you are unique?

Signature tells us something special about someone. Including ourselves. Because we are in fact special, and should be treated as such.

So write it out, your own contract with yourself, sign sealed, and delivered...

You have control over your life. Success or failure is up to you, whether you chose to believe it or not.

You control how fortunate you are in your relationships with others, but most specifically yourself. You create your wealth with your effort, and being true to yourself is effortless, so just be and let thing be what they are.

LuCy sMiLeS