If the Shoe Fits!

Relationships are like shoe shopping.

Sometimes we will be so taken back by the style, the colour, and the brand, even, that we will work our darndest to squeeze our foot in the last pair that is a 1/2 size too small, going as far as to buy them still in hopes that with little stretch and wear here and there, it will eventually fit.

As same in relationships, that even if the fit is not there, we will compomise our comfort, where comfort should not be compromised.

Just as we will continue to look in the mirror, turning over and over, to see if the 1/2 size small even now complements our outfit, wasting precious hours staring, contemplating, forcing to believe it will be fine with a little fine tuning, we do the same this in our own lives with others.

If the shoe fits, wear it. IF it is too small, be nice to yourself, and place it back for someone else to enjoy.

Chances are someone is doing the same for you.

LuCy sMiLeS